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COMPASSION, CURIOSITY & A LITTLE COUNTERCULTURE.

Person-centered, liberation-minded therapy.

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We’ll start with curiosity, not assumptions.

Maybe you’ve been to therapy before, but something felt missing. You understood your patterns, yet still felt stuck. Maybe the strategies didn’t quite fit your brain, your body, or your life. You’re looking for a space where you can be complicated, curious, skeptical, spiritual, funny, exhausted, or some combination of all of the above.

My approach starts with connection. We’ll get curious about your experiences, honor the ways you’ve learned to survive, and explore what feels useful to you now. As a social worker, I also pay attention to the bigger picture: the relationships, cultures, systems, and expectations shaping your life. There’s room here to question the rules you’ve inherited and decide which ones deserve a place in your future.

In sessions with me, we might explore a thought that keeps you stuck, practice a skill for an overwhelming moment, or pause to notice what’s happening in your body. We can make room for meaning, ritual, and a little woo if that speaks to you, alongside practical tools and evidence-informed approaches. Expect compassion, collaboration, and some irreverent humor and swearing to boot. Your lived experience, your wisdom, and what matters to you will guide our work together.

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Practical tools, a little woo, and room to question the status quo.

Ultimately, what matters most is this:

Connection is medicine.

You don’t have to do this alone.

We can hold it all together while you find your footing.

Is working with Heather Liv right for you?

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Our work may be a good fit if you……

  • Want a therapist who brings warmth, curiosity, a sense of humor, a well timed swear word (or two), and welcomes your full, complicated humanity.

  • Are tired of trying to fit expectations that weren’t built with your brain, body, or lived experience in mind.

  • Understand your patterns but need support turning that insight into meaningful change.

  • Want to explore how relationships, systems, and inherited “shoulds” shape the way you feel about yourself.

  • Appreciate practical tools, welcome a little soul-searching, and want a say in how therapy unfolds.

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What we’ll work on

Discovering what is possible when we loosen the “shoulds”.

We’ll get curious about the beliefs and patterns that helped you get through and whether they still serve you. Our work might include responding to yourself with more compassion, finding ways to navigate overwhelm that fit your nervous system, or setting boundaries without abandoning your need for connection.

We’ll also question the expectations you’ve been carrying: whose rules are they, what do they cost you, and what would you choose for yourself? Your values will help guide us as we explore new ways of responding, relating, and living. You’ll have my support in the messy practice of doing things differently.

Here, your story is heard, and your experience matters.

Questions?

FAQs

There is magic in the messy middle.

There is magic in the messy middle.